" The Personal Bank Account "

First of all try to find out your internal secrets with in you because you are responsible for all the changes developed in you and use the skills with in you to develop your personality.

A great saying by Siedah Garrett that:
                                                      

                                                   
                                                   I'm starting with the man in the mirror
                                                   I'm asking him to change his ways
                                                   And no message could have been any clearer
                                                   If you wanna make the world a better place
                                                   Take a look at your self, and then make a change

First of all try to find out, what you are lacking, find out your bad habit and replace them with good habits. And if you keep on doing this act you will make a change in you then think how to change the world according to your desires.And you will get a high standard that when ever you will look at you in the mirror, you will see your destiny.

This video defines different types of habits:        

                                       

Its a great idea about oneself defined as a personal bank account, like deposit good habits in you and withdraw bad habits from yourself. When you feel that there is something good in you that you have deposited and withdraw something bad from you, you become relax, never depressed and devastated.
Don't keep on depositing good habits because it can become load for you. First stick on the commitment that you have deposited one good habit in you then deposit an other good habit. You have to stick to the commitments that you have done with you and never withdraw it from you.
If you have zero balance in your PBA then don't depressed, lets start depositing starting from 1 Rs and take it to billion gradually.

                                               " Always be the first rate version of yourself, 
                                             instead of a second rate version of somebody else."

First deposit thing like "promise with you" and stick to it.

 * Do small acts of of kindness:
                                                    If you are on the road and you see a stone in the middle of road and no body is going to take off from the road then you should do this act of kindness so that no body may injured with it. There are many examples in our daily life that is two persons are fighting with each other and you see them then you have to create advice them and create harmony and brotherhood b/w them.
In the book "7 steps of highly effective teenagers", Sean Covey give some examples about his life. What I find in it is, when you want to do any good acts of kindness then don't realize others and be sensitive that you are helping them just not because that they are poor, uneducated etc but to please your Allah.  We should not do good acts just for that the other people consider us brave, wise, rich and good person. People should just do good deeds to make their God happy. 

 There are other things that we should deposit in out PBA like:
 * Be gentle with yourself
 * Be honest
* Renew yourself
 * Tap into your talent

Finally, never loose your hope, always try to get through the stares of your journey and depositing confidence, believe, faith, self respect in you and withdraw bad habits like nervousness, depression and other bad thinking about yourself. After that you will be confident and will believe on your abilities, power, forces which you have deposited in you.

I have deposited many things like confidence, spirit, honesty, bravery and find the secret hidden forces inside me. And i have committed to my self that i will keep all these things with me and will implement it to my life. A chart of my PBA.

 
Baby steps:I promised with myself that I will do breakfast in the morning but I was unable to maintain it even for the first time. I have done some acts of kindness like, helping an old man in crossing the road, wake up all my hostel fallows in time so that they may not late, helping friends in doing JAVA programming and so. I have decided to develop a habit of being a punctual in every field of life.