You will do it, or some one else will do it for you

"Don't rely on others, do it by your own and trust on your own abilities to achieve your goals".
The thing is that before starting your journey you don't know the methods, tricks, principals and rules of it then how can you rely on your own abilities. It is right that start your journey by your own but we have to know that which techniques should we use in it that may help us throughout our journey.

Holy Quran says:
                           "Show us the right way, the way of people on those Allah blessed more"

This is a verse of "Surah Fatiha". It is a prayer at the start of Holy Quran. What does it mean?
It shows that we have to follow those who know that methods, principals, techniques of spending life. We can get by following them. If we want to start our journey then we should know the difficulties and challenges that we will have to face in it. We can just get methods and principals from that great spiritual leaders. And they will never force you to do any thing. You will be responsible for every act that you do after it. Starting your journey, facing difficulties and achieving goals is in your hand. Your responsibility is to use the methods and principals that you get from your leader and then use it in your whole life to get to your destiny.
As teacher teach us and guide us throughout our education. Our responsibility is to work hard on it and apply all these things on our personality. If we don't get your goals then we are responsible of it because we did not apply the rules, methods and principles that we learned by your guider or leader.
So we have to learn first and then apply it then we can say that we have developed ourselves and we can rely on our own abilities .